Friday, January 21, 2011

Blog #4: You are pregnant, now what?

YOU ARE PREGNANT (or your girlfriend).  Now what?  (Minimum of 6 complete sentences)

23 comments:

  1. I would be in shock. I wouldn't know what to do or say when she would tell me that. I would have to tell my parents in the first place. Then I would make sure that her parents know too. Then I would talk to her in person or over the phone about the situation. Then I would name the kid if its a boy Dana and if a girl Michela

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  2. i would first try to make sure that our parents know. Then, i would work hard on getting enough money to raise the child. Then i would try to find someone to watch the child while we went to school. after we find someone we would go to school and try to graduate. then if we can go through college we will go through college and try to get a job afterwards that will pay well. then we will have to raise the child from the rest of the way

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  3. I would be scared.
    if i was pregnant i would want to tell someone that i trust, someone i tell everything to.
    the first person i would tell would be my younger sister, then my parents, and then my boyfriend.
    i would tell my boyfriend last because if he rejects me or something when he finds out then i already know that i have someone behind me for support.
    If i was pregnant and it was time to have the baby, and my parents told me to put it up for adoption, i would not agree.
    I wouldn't put up the baby for adoption because I know that I would someday regret what I did. Putting your baby up for adoption doesn't mean you're no longer a parent, it just means that you choose to live your life the way you wanted rather than raise your child to live a good and healthy life.

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  4. If my girlfriend was pregnant, id be there for her. I would not leave, i would try to be caring. Id try to find a job and get some money, and id hope she would stay in school. Id hope her parents would be ok with her trying to raise it. I would stay in school as well. This is what id do.

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  5. Inside, i would be really happy, but then again, im scared to death, because i don't know how i am going to tell my parents. My girlfriend and i would get togrthor and discuss how to tell people and when to tell people. I woul also find another job, or pick up alot of more hours. we would also live togethor so we are always both with the kid. I don't know what i'd name my son, but i hope it's a good name. Always wear a Rubber.

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  6. I would hate to have this conversation with my parents. It would be worse to have this talk with her parents. Having a baby at this point in time wouldn't be fun for me. I only have a part time job and don't have enough education to raise a family.

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  7. I'd be in complete shock. I'm not really sure how I'd react. All I know I would do is to NOT abort the baby. I'd think of adoption as the first option. So many questions would fill my mind. Should I keep it? Can I provide the proper environment that my baby would need? How do I tell my mom? Will I have to quit high school? I don't have a job...how will I be able to afford for the check-ups and the hospital bill? Am I ready for a child? Will I be able to give up my baby when the time comes? How attached will I be to this little person?

    To be honest, I wouldn't think of it as the end of the world. Sure, it's bery inconveniant, but I'd be really upset that I had premarital sex. Not only would I be disappointed in myself, but also the father. I guess I would try my hardest to make things work.

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  8. I would be like holy crap are you sure. If she was not kidding I would say oh man. I would tell my parents. Then we would take care of him or her. I would call him goerge. I would call her elizibeth.

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  9. If I was told I was pregnant I would probably cry. I would call the father and see if he was in for the challenge of raising a baby or not. I would get with my mom and make a plan about doctor apointments and what we are going to do. I would like to be able to finish out school this year and then come back the next year as soon as posible. I would see how who is going to pay for the apointments and the delivory I would see if the fathers parents would pay some too. I hope that the father would be a good guy and be there for the baby and me and support us.

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  10. I would hang up the phone and go in deep thought. Then I would have to tell my parents and hope they don't kill me. Then i would get another job to help suport the baby. The names would be decided when we know if the baby is a boy or girl. Then I would try to take care of the baby the best I can. Then I wouldn't know what to do next.

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  11. I would most likely freak out and I would be most definetly shocked. After a while I would tell my parents and hope they won't freak out on me. I would get a job to help get baby things and to support it. When it would be time to name the baby I would have no clue what to name it. I would do my best to take care of the baby as much as I could with out my parents help. Although I would ask my parents for tips or help me figure out things. Other than that I would have to live a total different life and be more responsible.

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  12. if my girlfriend got pregnant i wouldn't be nor upset i would be happy but i would stay be her side and i wouldn't let her take care of the baby alone

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  13. letzy
    if I had gotten pregnant I would do my best taking care of the child I would not purposely get pregnant or would I do that but a baby doesn't deserve to die for something they did not cause. I would never have abortion. I would care for the baby and hope that the father stays but if he doesn't I will ask my family to help me. I would inform all who my pregnancy affect for they do not find out in a terrible way. I would not force anyone to help me with the baby I would try on my own but if someone would like to help me I would let them. I do not plan on getting pregnant any time soon or do that any time too.

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  14. Brianna-
    I would have no clue what to do. I guess I would have to talk to my parents and the father and his parents. We would have to come up with a plan for raising the baby. I would need to get an income flowing in to raise the baby. I would do my best to finish my education, which is really important to me. I would have to sacrifice some of my goals to meet the needs of my child. I would take the responsibility of my actions and try to be the best parent I can be.

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  15. Henry- I would be scared honestly I live 35 miles out of town so and work on my dad's ranch so it's not like can leave at any time I want to go and see her. also that would make me the second person in my family to do it before marriage. My parents wouldn't react to my sister when my nephew was born. They did eventually forgive her but that took forever. I could not handle my parents treating m like that. I would try to take responsibility for my actions but, I don't know how well that would turn out.

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  16. Kassie-
    If I were to get pregnant the first thing I would do is tell my parents and figure out what I would do about having the father in the child's life. I would also tell his parents. I wouldn't drop school all together but I would probably start online schooling in order to meet my child's needs and still achieve my goals. I would get a good job so I could raise my child nicely and be stable financially.

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  17. Barry-
    I would have no idea what to do. I would need to start having some money flow to support to the baby. I would have to quit some school activates that I'm in to help rise the kid. I would also need to be more responsible and smart with my decisions.

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  18. Maddie-
    I honestly would have absolutely no clue at all what I would do. I would most likely be in shock for so long I would probably forget how to take care of a child. If it had to come to it, I might consider adoption. That would only happen because I know I'm not mentally, socially, and financially ready for a child or children.

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  19. Shelby-
    I would be scared, I don't really feel like I have enough support from people to help me through the pregnancy let alone when it is actually born. I wouldn't be able to go through that. I would have to tell my parents/significant other, and discuss my options.

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  20. taylor - I would be really scared to even tell my friends. It would be a lot scarier telling my family. Im not old enough to even raise myself so it would be really hard raising another kid.

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  21. Treymaine- I would be so scared. I can barely support myself financially, emotionally, and mentally. I would pray to God to help me out and i think. I would tell my parents also. I have a little niece and taking care of her can be a struggle even though it's only for a little while.

    Keep it fresh, Good Vibes

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  22. Emily~
    I would be scared. At some point I would tell my parents, they would freak out but they would help me. I would put the baby up for adoption

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  23. Darian-

    I would be like what. I wouldn't ready at the time, I wouldnt have enough money to take care of him/her. But i would love to be a dad, it would just be pretty scary. I would try to get a good paying Job, but first i would have to let my parents know. they would be pretty shocked as well, and i hope that they would understand that i am a father. At first i would be pretty scared to tell my parents, but after a while i would have to tell them eventaully. I would have to stay with my parents for a while, because i wouldn't know what to do first. I guess i wouldnt be a very good father at this age.

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